tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-531046939198620500.post5296505124921400871..comments2013-07-02T20:52:19.115-04:00Comments on Pieces Of This Puzzle Called Life: ExcusesAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03409227503690481434noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-531046939198620500.post-74615507736860067252010-01-20T10:11:55.697-05:002010-01-20T10:11:55.697-05:00Where is this quote ("Excuses are tools of in...Where is this quote ("Excuses are tools of incompetence. They build monuments of nothingness. Those who use them seldom do anything.") from?Smithershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07266972354968899601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-531046939198620500.post-25063741036777201792008-06-23T19:22:00.000-04:002008-06-23T19:22:00.000-04:00Well this is a very interesting assessment of men,...Well this is a very interesting assessment of men, or should I say boys! Men would never sit on their "hind parts" and not pursue their dreams or aspirations. Take me, I am married to what many would call a successful black woman. She has two Master's Degrees and is currently the Director of a major medical conglomerate called HCA. She makes very close to six figures. I am a recently graduated, Bachelor's Degree, Assistant Manager at FedEx Kinkos in Fl. I actually picked up and moved to Florida to help her pursue her dreams. Now most men in my situation would just go along for the ride and do the bare minimum to at least look like they are participating in the house hold funds. Me, no sir. I am still looking to get my Master's, a better job, and more security. I refuse to the token husband. That's what MEN do. Boys just depend on women to play with their little "wee, wees," and nurture them. To play the role of Baby Boy. Unfortunately, some women are suckers for this and actually look for this. They seek security in knowing that this man depends on them, hoping this will keep them close. They want to be the "Bust It" Baby. When he says, "I love you ma," she takes the subliminal message to heart and he means it as such. She becomes his mother. She feeds him, clothes him, holds him when he is hurt, manages his money. Is this his fault? Women really do know who this boy is when they get with him. They use the EXCUSE most women in their situation use, "I can change him." So they take a boy, and try to mold a man, but end up to taking care of a grown ass boy. So I, a MAN, take offense to the "Men" reference. This should be referenced to grown boys. My advice, just like you can't turn a "H" into a housewife, you can't turn a baby boy into a Big Daddy.Christlojhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03281696418721021134noreply@blogger.com